Adult Swimming

Nude Bathing for Men Only has an expansive SL waterway as a key feature of our resort.  We encourage all sorts of water sports such as jetskii, motor boats, sailing, surfing, deep sea diving and swimming.  We have recently added SWIMMER Region Land GIVER!! Swimmer by Mchelangelo Rossini 3.0 one of the more popular swimming HUD’s on the grid.

Visitors are encouraged to take advantage of this new feature at Nude Bathing and bring their friends.  A group tag is required to avoid the perils that exists in the sea.

More importantly it is  a great opportunity to socialize with other men who swim in the buff.

Happy cruising fellas

NUDE BEACH RETURNS

The nude beach at Nude Bathing for Men Only has returned.  We have extended our waterfront to include a long stretch of beach for hanging out, dancing, cruising and doing what comes naturally when you visit.  This is just one of the enhancements we have made to our community.  We spent some time listening to what our visitors had to say and we are grateful for the input.

We brought back our destinations guide so that visitors are no longer left to guess where to go or what to do when they arrive.  Now when you land at our visitors Telehub, you can select your destination.  We thought hard about allowing visitors to directly Teleport to any location, but we find it best that everyone land at our landing zone to get the information needed to enjoy their stay.

Jan 25 – Jan 31 we are running a L$1500 BEST BEACH BODY PHOTO CONTEST.

1st Prize = L$1000

2nd Prize = L$350

3rd Prize = L$150

Hop on over and add your entry today. You have to be in it to win it.

Cheers!

NEW DAY AT NUDE BATHING FOR MEN

Hey there everyone.  I hope 2015 brings us all the things our heart desires.  And when that is not possible, let each day bring us something less challenging to overcome.

Nude Bathing for Men Only continues to be an option for men when looking for more than just a dirty toilet to screw at on the grid.  But let’s be clear.  There is nothing wrong with screwing on the grid.  In fact, there is less drama when you have a dick in your mouth or one in you assets.  Grins.  That being the case we are continuing our staff bot program so that you are never alone when you visit.  Our sexy sex craved staff is always on duty to suck you and fuck you and shoot their cum all over you whenever you require it.

NBFM Skybox Rental Community continues to be the most desired place to live on the grid.  Since us joining the ranks of the lower priced accommodations, there has been no vacancies and a growing waiting list.  The best way to be informed of an opening is to use the Notify feature of our CasperLet rental system.  When you add your name to the rental meter, the system will notify you when the unit becomes available.  As an aside, we do have private booths at the bookstore if you are looking for something free and short term.

Club Dick is now an event driven venue instead of a weekly dance club.  We invite our members to use the space to book their own events.  Just send a notecard describing your event to ebutterfield resident.

A new business has been created by the owner of Nude Bathing For Men Only.  BLACK PORN SHACK for animated porn clips for all.  This venture brings gay, straight, lesbian, bisexual, shemale, and 3D gay porn to the grid in the form of video clips on objects that are mod/trans for L$99.  We are expanding our locations throughout the grid and are currently located at three additional adult rated regions.  We also have an affiliate program for those interested in promoting the product at their adult themed shops. Affiliates receive 30% of each sale.

We hope to see you soon!

Tos’d from Facebook.com

The Nude Bathing for Men on SL Facebook group has been removed and will not be returning.  Unfortunately our content is in violation of their Terms of Service.  Fortunately, we can still enjoy this blog and other media outlets such as flicker to share our photos and events.

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NBFM Waterfront Community

NUDE BATHING FOR MEN is now officially a waterfront community.  Our recent remodel was aimed at loosing the profile of being another beach.  To accomplish this we needed to pick up the sand and lay down a location more suited for an urban theme.  The new model includes a modern bathhouse with high quality sex animations and scenes; the massage parlor, the showers, and pool table lounge.  A viaduct with a sex maze that makes for an interesting cruising location.  Club Dick our 24-hour dance party lounge.  A corniche overlooking the waterfront with sex benches and street lamps perfect for that first date or encounter.

On the main street you will find our Bowling Alley, Sex Alley, Access to the Baths, Movie Theater, A Bar and our Gay Zone Bookstore with Peep Show Booths.

Browse our magazines and custom published books or chill out in one of our privacy enabled peep show booths that include a media player and lounge.  Perfect for 2 or more and includes Warm Animations sex run and adult furnishings.  A far cry from the coin slot booths with a  bench.

Check out our video presentation for Club Dick.

We hope to see you and your friends dropping in at Nude Bathing for Men‘s new waterfront community.  I would like to give a special acknowledgment to Edward Ballinger as chief architect on the remodel.

Cheers!

Paparazzi

This blog is about a recent attempt to shame and humiliate others exploring Second Life.  Since tonight there will be a new episode of SCANDAL and How To Get Away With Murder, I thought I would put this out before I indulge myself in television shows.  A new scandal has erupted or attempted to erupt starring yours truly.  I was out with the hubby role playing at some random public toilet in SL, where I played the role of the dirty slut and was to ride this big studs dick and bring him to ecstasy.  Its a kink my man is into and it was fun for me too.  Unbeknownst to us we were being recorded.

Click to play on Gyazo Paparazzi – Toilet Whore

Well the recording somehow fell into the hands of those not too fond of me including a sullen ex-partner and this was the result.

When bitches get a copy of shit on you.

The post was so malicious and damming that the thread only focused on the star of the film.  Me.  When I got wind of it I laughed and didn’t give it too much thought.  Then I had a revelation, that I could actually use this to my advantage.  By taking my story public and making it clear to those who attempt to shame or humiliate others, that the outcome can be twofold.  This kind of internet bullying can victimize the meek and mild personality.  I am neither and will call out all of the cowards directly for this attempt to disrupt a persons right of free expression.

So hear this Paparazzi keep your cameras loaded and look out for more footage as my partner and I continue to express ourselves around the grid.

Also feel free to bring you and your freaks to Nude Bathing for Men a place where you can express yourself free from any harm.  Just leave the drama and your underwear at the door.

Budda

Don’t Put Your Hands On Me

I remember my friend Kevin who was in an abusive relationship during the years we were clubbing in NYC.  His partner was so jealous that he couldn’t stand Kevin socializing outside of his small group of friends.  For a long time we didn’t know it was physical because there were no obvious signs.  During one holiday season when parties for the fellas were abundant, we all found ourselves in Brooklyn, NY at a club called One Hot Spot.  The place was crowded and the drag comedienne Harmonica Sunbeam was performing.  During the performance as all the hot sweaty men stood around watching and laughing, you could feel the heat resonate off the bodies of this hot guy or that hot guy.  So Kevin who stood in close proximity to me noticed a guy trying to press up on  me.  He tapped me on the shoulder and gestured with his eyes for me to peer behind me. As I turned to see what was behind me I noticed Kevin’s lover grab him and jerk him toward him in an alarming manner.  Then they began to argue and it was noticeable to everyone because at times it drowned Harmonica Sunbeam out.  I remember Harmonica yelling “Security” on the mic.  It provided for some laughter and lightening the moment.  I remained bothered by what I witnessed as my friend winched and looked horrified by his lover.  I went from party mode to defense mode.  I was ready to fight.  Kevin could see me welling up and quickly shook his head for me not to do anything.  After the show when everyone began to return to the main dance floor downstairs.  I stayed close to Kevin and his lover to make sure nothing was going to jump off.  This dude was giving off really bad vibes.  I do not know if I was making it worse but I knew i needed to be close.  By the time we got to the top of the stairwell about to descend it happened.  Kevin’s lover slapped him so hard he went flying down the flight of stairs.  If you’ve ever been in a crowded club with a bunch of homosexual males, you could imagine the screams and the noise.  I think i screamed and attacked his lover and we began to fight while others went to rescue Kevin.  Kevin had a broken collar bone, 2 broken ribs, and a broken ankle.  Meanwhile, I am being pulled off the lover by security and wrestled to the ground.  Neither one of us was arrested but we were banned from the club.  When I got to the hospital to see Kevin he was in his room crying saying he was sorry and he didn’t know what came over him.  Out of respect for Kevin, I remained quiet.  Deep inside I knew I would never trust my friend with this guy again.  The hospital social worker arrived to speak to Kevin about his injuries and he said he slipped down a flight of stairs since it was unclear that his lover pushed him and I was no longer a good witness since I got put out the club for fighting.  When the social worker asked who would be his caregiver at home Kevin looked at his lover and said he would.  I felt so shut out and angry that I walked out of the hospital room.  The social worker came over to me and told told me see’s it all the time and not just with women.  She said, “Your friend will not let him go until he gets the help he needs”.  

During those days there weren’t readily available support groups or programs for domestic violence as a whole let alone those tolerant to the GLBTQ community.  Today organizations like GLBTQ Domestic Violence Project  can assist and there is a 24-Hour DV Hotline: 800-832-1901.

I lost contact with Kevin as life took me in different directions.  I still kept him in my heart and prayers.  Years later I ran into Kevin outside of another club in Brooklyn and he was free of that man and that situation.  I was like yes my prayers were answered.  But it will take more than prayers for many others.  

Of course when you run into abusive personalities in Second Life you can mute and block and keep it moving.  

 

 

A Day In The Life

This blog is about socializing a non-gay friend.  I use the phrase “non-gay” loosely for those comfortable in their closet.  This is a topic of recent interest since running the virtual Nude Beach for Men Only on the Second Life Grid. We tend to attract all varieties which is our desired outcome.  Closeted men who do not identify with common gay-isms or culture while having a homosexual relationship  can be a real drag.  The degree of comfort we as out gay men enjoy gets compromised because of the different sensitivities of the counters.  Not every man likes being referred to as “Gurl” or “Chile” even though they are common colloquialisms in gay life.  It is comparable to the use of “Brother” or “Sister” when members of the same race refer to each other.  Not because they are blood related but because they share a cultural connection and some would say a gender preference (with just a hint of shade).

 

Speaking of shade, too  often the banter between out gay men can and will include slights or insults toward one another.  For example: “Hey Gurl, You looking beat today.  What time you got in from that party last night?”  But it is not always as serious as the proverbial “Read” which is intended to be insulting, degrading, and a low down gut punch.  Sometimes it is just done in fun, as a joke to keep the moment lively and light or better yet colorful.  To an outsider, this form of exchange can be perceived as hostile, combative, and negative.  But to out gay men it was just a metaphorical means of describing a situation.  Even less complicated than the last sentence, this banter would be expected knowing the intention of the person giving it.  In my mind I would process it as: “Ooh miss thing aint right, but not too wrong.  I am feeling exhausted.”  And just for posterity, gay men never refer to themselves as being “Tired”.   So get a thesaurus and find other creative ways to describe it. <snap>.

So what do we do to orient our not-so-gay friends?  Just like anything, these things take time.  I would first recommend keeping an open mind and being slow to pass judgment.  Then out gay men, you can interpret at your leisure until they pick it up on their own.  After-all there is no school or curriculum offering these lessons.  It just requires a day in the life.  And maybe a bit longer.

 

 

 

 

DANCE WITH ME

If you love dancing like my partner and I, then you are going to enjoy visiting Mo’s Ballroom & Partner Lounge for Men.  An extension installed at Nude Bathing for Men to encourage partners to expand their SL experience.

Mo’s Ballroom is inspired by my partner Montel Edwards who enjoys jazz and the arts.  I am more a fan of the disco and dance music.  Our combined tastes will deliver music and themes from each.

The lounge on the upper level is great for hanging out and striking up conversations with others.  We know you will enjoy this very relaxing atmosphere and hope you will tell your friends.

We kindly ask that you respect our dress code.  No nudity and suits preferred.  It feels good to have some dress up moments.

Stop by and have a drink on us.  See you at the door and dance with you on the floor.

Til You Close The Door to Giving.

This blog is about marriage and relationships.  How ready are many of us for marriage?  Do we follow the existing models of matrimony or do we go into this journey with a fresh point of view.  I personally believe the latter.  Too often we travel down the roads of our heterosexual brethren while in non-traditional relationships.  Even those couples that simulate the masculine and feminine roles suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, when the familiar “bads” creep into their relationships.  And while in crisis, two men, may not possess the coping skills required to stick it out.  

I love music and the lyrics of songs can be so profound.  Inside one of my favorite Chaka Khan songs “Close the Door”  these words rung out and stick with me til today.

til you close the door to giving
To giving
Don’t call it quits
It would be a shame

Our little fits
Would be to blame
I’d give all of me
And my precious time

I’m not afraid to give

And what’s mine is mine

Read more: Chaka Khan – Close The Door Lyrics | MetroLyrics

Don’t let the small things get in the way of your happiness and your journey.  Be open to compromise and self examination.  Face your ego and ask it to let you try something new.